Thursday, March 15, 2012

Soon to be known as...

the basement!

When we moved in, these are a few images of our basement.
A beautiful bedroom with bright blue shag carpet... 

and another bedroom with what I call sunday school room paneling...

the main area had paneling on one wall, a bathroom off to the right, and the remainder unfinished.

I had to put this one in there...look how little Christian looks! That was a little over a year ago.


and there's the stairs in all their glory


So...we've already done some changes (we = mostly Ben). Last spring break the egress windows were installed into both bedrooms. That included gutting both of those bedrooms..so sad to see the carpet and paneling go :(...maybe not.

Then over the summer and into this spring we have slowly removed more things to be able to completely redo the basement. 
Ben took out the bathroom..whew, which was good, it was NOT pretty above the ceiling.


 And then this last week, he took out the wall to the one bedroom..which will then make that bedroom bigger when it is refinished. He also took off the rest of the wall in the main area. So...now its pretty much gutted and ready to be redone! Easy, right!? Probably not easy, but hopefully a good chunk of it will get started when Ben is on spring break next week. I'm hoping anyway :)

Thursday, March 8, 2012

2 1/2

The life of Christian as a 2 1/2 year old....

7:45-9:00: Somewhere in this time frame is generally when you wake up...
now that you sleep in your open bed, you can help yourself out of bed as you please. So usually I'm greeted by you right by the head of our bed and you telling me, "I waked up. I waked up. You wake up mama. You get up. I need a vitamin. I want to watch Wonder-fets." This also includes you petting at my hand. Depending on if it is closer to the 7:45 time frame and I worked the night before until 4 am..you just might get to watch Wonderpets on the couch, all snuggled in a blanket for a little bit. You are so funny when you watch a show, you sit with your hands folded together so nicely.


~ 9:30: I can almost always count on you eating cereal. That is the one meal, I will give you credit on being good at eating. Now as far as quality of cereal..maybe not so much..but you eat it. You like AppleJacks, Crispix, HoneyCombs, and if its a really special day you get to have the "tiger cereal"...Frosted Flakes. All of these cereals are usually known by what character happens to be on the back of the box not their actual name...."I want to eat Mr. Apple....I want Lighting McQueen cereal."

9:30 until who knows when: There is a variety of things that fill this time. The only days we have a planned event is Tuesdays and Sundays. Tuesday mornings we go to Mom 2 Mom at a church in town. You aren't exactly the biggest fan of going. This last Tuesday I said we were going and you immediately started crying saying, "I don't want to go to the brown church. I just go to the sunday school church." If I knew there was something that actually was scary or bad there I would be concerned...but there are wonderful ladies that volunteer to watch several different age groups, and almost each time when I come to pick you up, you are just fine. You just don't really like any church nursery..I don't get it. Sunday school though...you make me so proud. You just march right in there, and you sit in your little chair just ready to go. Such a big boy! You like sunday school :)

You really like to paint and color. We've recently tried out watercolors and those are really fun..I think I like them almost more than you! 

You're getting better at puzzles. You especially like this animal alphabet train puzzle we gave you for Christmas. You do a good job of picking out when animal I say goes next and then usually hook it together on your own. And thanks to this lovely puzzle we all know what a narwhal is. You of course are silly and think you need to climb into the box!


This is a huge favorite for you right now. It doesn't look like anything but you hook things together with string. Often you use the string from your "tool apron" from Kropf that you've gotten a couple of when you go the lumber store on Saturdays with Daddy. It really occupies you quite awhile and you get very focused. You will hook connect any number of things and then drag it around. You have always loved to "hook" things...and your little toy "Mater the tow truck" does a lot of hooking to things for you. You get pretty frustrated when he comes unhooked, and mama does ALOT of rehooking!

Lunchtime..generally starts somewhere between 12-12:30. This is a very hit or miss activity for you. I don't understand how you aren't super hungry..I'm sure those days are coming where I will wonder the exact opposite. Your 'typical' meals consist of one of these: quesadilla, mac & cheese, whatever left over I'm eating, or a sandwich which you call a "hamwich"...even though its never made out of ham. On special days I will let you eat in the living room and put on a show in hopes that it will distract you enough that you will just eat your food and not think about the fact that you said you didn't want to. However, we've been talking about manners lately and it is pretty cute how you just ever-so-politely will say "no thank you" to every single thing I offer to feed you. 
The other day this is how lunch went. I made you 1/2 of a PB&J and you ate a couple bites and a bite of cottage cheese. 
Then you said, "I'm all done. I just need a cookie." 
me: "You need to eat this much more of your sandwich". 
you: "No thank you. I just need a cookie."
me: "How about some more cottage cheese first."
you: "No thank you. I will eat some ice cream."
me: "Would you like me to make you a quesadilla?"
you: "No thank you. I'm all done with food. I just need a cookie."
me: "Well, we can't have dessert until we each some lunch."
you: "I just need a cookie."

hmm...well, you stayed polite the whole time, but you didn't get your cookie...sorry buddy :(


Naptime: You usually go down around 1:30-2:30 and then sleep for an hour and a half. Going to sleep isn't your favorite thing...of course you always say, "I'm not tired. I can't sleep." And you know that once I start saying okay, lets go potty or let's read a book that it must be about that time..because instead of agreeing to do those things you just start saying, "but I'm not tired..but I can't sleep." So I lay you down, and then I sit next to your bed and lay on my "corner" of your bed. It generally takes about 5 minutes and your out :)

Speaking of potty...you do really well. You don't say when you need to go necessarily, but during the day you stay dry for the most part and I just take you every so often. You get a sticker to put on the back of the door when you go..which you think is just great. And if you happen to go #2...oh, I do an all out party dance and celebration for you!! You're getting there..I sure it will happen one of these days :) WE read lots of books and sing lots of songs on the potty. I should get a cushion to put on the tub for me to sit on..some days I feel like alot of my time is spent on that fella. Your vocabulary when it comes to bathroom is getting quite extended...."di-gusting. ri-dic-oo-lus. gross." All the more reason, I feel as though you should be going in the toilet my dear.


Often times throughout the day, I will have music on my squeezebox...my little music machine :) I have a pandora station that plays the perfect selection of kids christian music for you. It doesn't have any form of video to it...but since you hear the voices and there is one picture that shows up to show who is singing, you like to look at the box. I love it that you enjoy music so much. You will sing these songs while they sing..or just at random times. You know many gospel songs, hymns, praise songs, childrens songs...made up songs that I can't remember what I made them up about (that's always bad, because then you want me to sing "that one" and I can't remember at all how it goes!).



Some days we go over to Grandma's house. When I work at 3p..you usually go over there until Daddy gets off work. You love to go to "grandma's house". This week when we went over there it was actually "grandpa's house" too!! It was funny. I said, "We're going to Grandma's house." You said, "And Grandpa will be there too." I said, "Well, of course, it is his house too!" You have always just referred to it as her house...but I'm glad you know he lives there too :) 

When we left her house the one day, I had brought a bag and needed to take it back with us...so you wanted to see if you'd fit. I carried you out in my grocery sack :)


You love to play with your cars, trucks, tractors, and trains. You also like to find crazy little spots to place them...also known as hiding them. You don't intentionally hide things, but man, you really do a good job if I'm not watching sometimes! There is a small crack in the couch, and that is the "tunnel" the cars were going into. You really like the "Cars" characters right now, and I found a book that came with small figurines, you thought that was just WONDERFUL!



4:30: This is when DADDY COMES HOME!!!  You and I made a homemade version of PlayDoh, and it was just getting finished when Daddy came home so you played with it together.




We eat earlier than we ever have I think. Generally we eat by 6:00...and supper is usually better luck for you to eat something substantial because by this point you must actually be more hungry. We all play around after supper; blocks, tunnels, or read books, lots of books. We go to the library every couple weeks, and switch out the supply of fresh books. Some of your favorites right now....Bear's Loose Tooth, the nemo one that's in spanish (daddy isn't a big fan of that one..and he's the one that has to read it!),  Thunder Boomer, the Baby Animal one (the really old one that my Grandma and Grandpa had at there house), the bedtime stories one....oh there are LOTS of books you like.

You shower with Daddy, and always yell for "Maaammma" to come get you dried off. You run to your bed naked and say, "I'm sleeping" after your out. We play around a little while longer, and then read a couple more books in your tent in your room. 

8-9:00: Somewhere in there one of us puts you to bed. Whoever lays you down has to sing a song. This is where it gets more interesting. Daddy sings you a song in spanish..that I have no idea what it is. He also knows the complete "Thomas theme song" which I don't. So if you are getting tucked in by him..no problem. But sometimes, if you are unsatisfied with my version of either song or other songs I do know to sing to you...than you sometimes will say, "now we need to say, Daaaaddddy." Funny boy.

~You are smart, silly, and growing up all too fast.

~You say phrases like, "that's exactly right," "actually," and "I really do need         ". 

~You told your toys they were "going to college" the other day and that "it won't be scary, don't be scared." I have no idea where you heard this one! The only thing I can think of is that about 4 months ago when you went to the college for a friend who works there to watch you..I told you, "we are going to college. It will be fun. It won't be scary, you will have fun."

~You have a memory like NO OTHER!

~You listen even when I don't think you are. During church someone said something about being "Christians"...and you perked up for a brief moment and said, "uh-huh!"

~You comment on how you want to go to the beach or in an airplane DAILY since we've been home from Mexico. And when I say we can't..you say, "We can, we just need to go in the airplane. Then we can go to the beach."

~Anytime I open my laptop you think Carissa is in there, because we use that to skype with her. You will say, "Can we skype with Carissa? Can I see her?" I don't know if this is sad or just part of modern technology that you know what skyping is and you're not even 3.

~When someone knocks at the door you either think, "Mitchell is here!!" or "It musk (must) be Kade." Mitchell comes over from time to time...but Kade doesn't frequent our house by himself ever...you just must wish he would!

I love you little man. I love all your silly ways. I love that you still smooch me (we've gone over how kisses can be on the cheek now..but you make sure its on the lips for me still!). I love that with your hugs you make the "mmmmm" sound as if you are giving a big bear hug. I love that you are full of life as a 2 year old should be!!!

Thursday, February 23, 2012

spe·cial [siblings in Mexico]

Definition of SPECIAL

1
: distinguished by some unusual quality; especially : being in some way superior 
2
: held in particular esteem 
3
a : readily distinguishable from others of the same category: unique b : of, relating to, or constituting a species : specific
4
: being other than the usual : additionalextra
5
: designed for a particular purpose or occasion
— spe·cial·ness noun




This was indeed a special night out.
Our last night before heading back home...the siblings that were still in Mexico went into the town.
I felt it was necessary to give the definition of special..because it was special in that we don't normally get to go out together, let alone while in Mexico...but also because the males that joined Alyssa and I were in rare form.
Nevertheless, we had a really fun time. A big priority was finding the scarf store..and prior to finding "the one", we had running commentary on how we were passing ALL KINDS OF SCARF STORES and then we found one that sold many that we decided to stop at. 
Not only were the scarves a good price, but they had a sign on the store that said "fixed prices." Clearly that was just a mistake, according to one of the boys that had joined us..oh my goodness!
The poor ladies at this shop were probably SO ready for us to leave..he had talked and TALKED and TALKED...of course attempting in spanish using Ben to translate the words he wanted to say. We bought what we went for..apologizing for all the ridiculousness :)
We ended up finding "the store" we were trying to find..
so many wonderful things!
Then we walked around just looking at the variety of stores and people. It seemed crazy that there were so many people out and about, shopping and carrying on at 11 pm.
Here are a few pictures from the evening...brace yourself :)





see how we're normal...

and what we dealt with was not...

They are special alright...
real special.

Wednesday, February 22, 2012

MJ..Mexico 2012

I got a disc of pictures that mom had taken in Mexico and didn't really feel like going back and changing things..so I thought I'd just pick out a few I really liked and put them on their own.


Just a typical day...on the beach, eating pizza.


This was on the 1st afternoon there...the activity was soccer and so all the boys and I participated....take note of the guy to the left that is really tan and is in black shorts.

There's me..I did more than just stand there (not claiming I was any good at my contributions)...until that man that I made note of totally stomped all over my right shin. That sucker bruised up IMMEDIATELY...I no longer felt the need to play a little "harmless" game of soccer on the beach.


Family photo with the first sand castle...


 The big boys in front of sand castle #2

 the front side of sand castle #2

 Our family mexico shirts...


 Nice job mom...it looks like a screensaver...or maybe it is your screensaver. Either way..its a pretty picture. 

 The last day there..Christian thought it was SO funny to dump a cup of water on Grandpa's head.
Oh man would he giggle!

 A little game of hot potato

 Aren't they precious...

GJ, MJ :)

Tuesday, February 21, 2012

adios...Mexico [mexico-day 5]

Our last day on the beach...Christian was put inside the sandcastle from yesterday. I guess I did have a picture of my side..it had a sea turtle on it too.

We didn't have to leave until shortly after noon, so we spent a little time at the beach and a little in the pool. It was hard to get out to get packed up :(


 There was no running in airports this time. A little of the opposite, but that's okay.
We had perfect weather the whole trip..it was just a good vacation. The only bummer was that Mom was sick for part of it, and was on some medicine that made the sun rays do crazy things to her poor skin...but she managed to take part in all the activities and felt better by the end. We all received some sun!!!
The look out of my window in the plane coming into Houston. Christian slept almost the whole trip from Cancun to Houston....not at ALL the trip from Houston to Wichita...he was a jabberbox!! I said that to him, and he happily exclaims, "I not a jabberbox..I CHRISTIAN!" The lady ahead of us I'm sure got an ear full of the random stories he was telling! 

Gracias padre y madre!!!

Monday, February 20, 2012

beach..family photos..japanese [mexico day 4]

We were down a few family members for most of the day today. Tim and Carissa flew home last morning...and Dad and Mitch went to a place that had zip lines and water stuff. The rest of us managed just fine on the beach!!


The girls


The next two are some of my favorites...



Christian loves the water!! He didn't mind getting in the ocean with me to go swimming..when he would get splashed in the face with a wave, he wasn't very pleased. Either way, he likes to be in the water.


The food was really good. I'm not a huge fan of buffets usually..but here its different. There is a variety of things I like. I usually ended up getting the same thing at lunch time though...some kind of rice with steamed vegetables...it was SO good. Ben would always get a big plate of guacamole and fresh salsa to have with chips or whatever else was on his plate. Christian..well, his pickiness didn't stop just because we were on vacation..he did alright though. His favorite part was of course dessert...ice cream (which he didn't wait for a spoon for apparently)!


Nap time on the beach. Had we been here for many more days, I would've joined him instead of playing in the sand :)


This is the final sand castle #3...an octopus with a volcano on top...I didn't get a picture of my side..it was stairs and I don't know other castle-y type things.



I wanted some pictures of our family.
The last ones we have, were from 4 years ago when Ben and I got engaged.


(Mom was our photographer...thank you!)

Then we stayed down by the beach since we were already dressed for supper and took a few many more pictures. Here are a few of them...




That evening we went to the Japanese restaurant...who knew it was SO good. Ben was surprised that I liked it so much!! I'm telling you...I loved the sushi..but maybe its because I didn't know what was in there..it's all about the texture..and these weren't squishy and squirmy. Anytime we were eating, both Brent and Mitch decided they needed to pretend they knew more Spanish than what they really did...of course they are both ridiculous and they use Ben as their go to translator. A lot of phrases were overused..it was a bit amusing, and I'm sure the workers were at least slightly amused :)


Thanks to these lovely people we had a WONDERFUL family vacation :) 
Thank you thank you thank you!